If you want to see CHAOS in action, have kids or observe them closely.

They are ever changing, shifting, growing, moving, creators and nothing EVER stays the same. This can be both confronting as a parent or a welcome change, depending on which way you look at it and what you are going to get on any given day. One minute you could be frustrated as hell by them and the next they have you rolling around on the floor laughing. This literally has shown up for me this week several times already.

Yes I am still maintaining my sanity lol, just.

I remember when my kids were babies and a behaviour or pattern would show up that was not to my liking, such as a sleep pattern change or the onset of fussy eating. One minute they were eating fistfuls of broccoli, next they were turning their little noses up at it and throwing it on the floor. Gah!

Then the tantrums. One day in the middle of the supermarket aisle, I plopped myself on the floor whilst both my kids were having a tantrum over ice-cream. There I was lying on the floor in the middle of Woolworths just to gain their attention. It worked and I was able to get my point across, much to the amusement of my friend who had come along with me that day. They both quit screaming instantly, looking at me like what you doing down there mummy? “Ok great now that I have your attention, this is how this ice-cream thing is going to go down…”

A friend once told me though, whenever times got challenging, “hang in there and they will turn the corner,” and she was correct, they always did.

The same can be said for our lives too, however as adults we have it a little topsy turvy.

Hear me out…

Energy is always moving, our cells are always renewing and regenerating just like the earth, yet WE wish to keep everything the same. Huh?

There is no growth in same. You know it, we know it, we all know it, some of us just may not wish to acknowledge it, YET.

If you wish to have more, be more, create more, generate more, then you gotta embrace the chaos.

Take it from the kids that know a little something about change. If the earth and our little ones can tackle every milestone, shift and change like a boss then so can we.

Danielle Tooley ~ Access Consciousness CF

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I am a transformation coach and energetic body worker. I can perceive people's limitations and blockages and am able to facilitate them to space of greater possibility. My sessions are both hands on and interactive. What would you like your life to look like? I am here to create a space for you to choose the most expansive, phenomenal life that you have always known is possible yet never chosen. Lets do this together!